Hands Across the Water is celebrating National Foster Care month in a variety of ways. I hosted the HATW information table at the BTL Wedding Expo in March. This blog post details that event and has been shared with the Human Rights Campaign website, found here: www.hrc.org. Click on the "Blog" tab to see this entry on that website. Look for road side signs from HATW promoting foster care and adoption around town. I will also be attending an event at the Eastern Michigan Student Center called Parenting Across Race and Culture (PARC) on Saturday, May 17. Look for more information about PARC here: HATW on Facebook
It has been an exciting month for LGBT couples in
Michigan. For just one day, same-sex
marriage was legal in this state. Here
in Washtenaw County, some of the county clerk’s staff opened the office for some
lucky couples on that special Saturday.
Of course, the legal system shut things down pretty quickly and it was
over as fast as it had begun. However,
all of this led to a ramped up LGBT Wedding Expo with a whopping 80 vendors to
help LGBT couples spend their money on a lavish wedding. I was there hosting the information table
from Hands Across the Water (HATW) because, for many, if you’re getting
married, then children are soon to follow.
There was a party-like atmosphere at the show with DJ’s
blasting the music and the most unique fashion show that I have ever seen. According to organizer, Jan Stevenson,
usually the fashion show just features brides.
This time around she sent couples down the runway Every one
was holding hands and taking advantage of the openness of the event to steal a
kiss or two. Many of the couples I spoke
to were sure that building a family was in their future. Others just enjoyed thinking about the
possibility.
LGBT couples have found that foster care is a wonderful
route to parenthood. It is affordable
and often leads to adoption. Foster
parenting provides the opportunity to help a child who may have never known
what a healthy and happy home looks and feels like. A foster parent’s primary job is to provide a
home for the child while the birth family works toward reunification of their
family. If healing the birth family is
unsuccessful, the child will become available for adoption.
The state of Michigan is facing a shortage of foster parents
and the laws are favorable to same sex couples. Each potential foster family must complete
the licensing process (usually that takes two to six months). HATW provides 12 hours of free training to
educate families on the background of the children and possible behavioral
challenges. Applicants need to provide
documentation detailing finances, medical health, and any past involvement with
law enforcement. (Yes, this process is
challenging but it is also so rewarding!)
Both partners are licensed as foster parents and share an equal
responsibility for the children.
The laws in Michigan
are currently set up to enable one parent in a same-sex relationship to adopt a child. The
LGBT community is hopeful that this law will change soon and allow both parents
to adopt a child. The process is free,
the training is free and the benefits are many!
This May, HRC is proud to celebrate National Foster Care Month by honoring the leaders at child welfare agencies that are committed to improving outcomes for LGBTQ youth, the LGBTQ foster youth themselves, adn the foster families supporting them. Stay tuned to HRC blog throughout the month for more foster care heroes.
Thanks Kristen. My hubby and I are at the end of our home study here in Ontario. We were the only gay couple in our pride class. Everyone was just great.
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